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From the book "Dans la Maison des Amazones" (In the House of the Amazons) by Bernard Montorgueil
Illustration by Bernard Montorgueil (from the book “In the Amazon’s House”).

β€œ There’s nothing either good or bad… but thinking makes it so! ”

―  Shakespeare
(taken from the blog  EvilMonk.org)

Submissives who love humiliation, to feel subdued and disparaged should start worshipping Queen Sensoria at once. While humiliation can be part of several kinks of submission, it takes its most cerebral form in verbal humiliation and mindfuck, both forms at which She excels.

Queen Sensoria is of superior intelligence and verbal belittlement come to Her naturally. The Queen commonly confounds and regales Her interlocutors by the wittiness and the veracity of Her reflections. Only the most subtle of them will see the discreet sarcasm that She expresses more often than not. Being a stellar sapiophile, the Queen uses this stratagem to sort the wheat from the chaff and assert which will be Her favorite prey, and which ones She will have to spare, at their greatest loss…

That said, Queen Sensoria will always play in a consensual way. As mentioned on the website Kinkly

"Your safe word for today is... Otorhinolaryngologist", found meme on a photograph by Charles Guyette
Meme on a photograph by Charles Guyette

“… some couples [Sic: play partners] institute a safe word which can be used to cease the interaction if it goes too far. Some people consider verbal humiliation edgeplay, as it can be risky if the dominant does not completely understand the psyche of their submissive…”

To which She would add smirkingly: “…Or if the submissive does not understand the Dominant’s psyche.” Defining the territories that can be covered in the humiliation scene is a key part of the prior negociation. Those territories could be in their service, work, physique, knowledge in some fields, etc. The style of humiliation She enjoys goes from whispering, lightly devising and joking to womensplaining, man-handling, talking angrily, shouting, yelling and growling. All of those can be used to achieve a submissive state of mind.

All the while a humiliation session, Queen Sensoria likes to be foot-worshipped, foot massaged, boot-licked and serviced to add to the feeling of humiliation and debasement. She also enjoys objectifying the submissive to intensify the scene, using them as a foot rest, chair, floor mat or ashtray.

As for all kinks, Queen Sensoria practices humiliation in a non-sexual way. That said, everyone knows that not being able to seek sexual release can be seen as a sexual act in and of itself, as the Queen also finds a lot more pleasure in humiliating submissives than in pretending She cares about their genitals. Due to Her rank and class, Queen Sensoria will never use ethnic or racial slurs in her verbal degradation. Also, as She believes feminization is not a source of humiliation but rather a great privilege, She will rarely uses sissification terms for deprecation.

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